tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7644621885230406420.post8375424579809428551..comments2023-09-13T00:40:56.216-07:00Comments on Harms Family News: Toddlers and Preschoolers PrayingMommaHarmshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10422012921642709424noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7644621885230406420.post-82233898688884244732009-09-28T10:23:16.306-07:002009-09-28T10:23:16.306-07:00This post caught my attention because it's one...This post caught my attention because it's one of those "Is there a right answer" questions. It's frustrating to desire the best for your child, but not have specific scripture passages to base our decisions on. Here's a thought (similar to the potty training post) When our children are young, we teach them to obey, be kind, sit quietly in church etc... because "Mommy or Daddy said so"; not because they love God and want to please Him. Of course, our desire is for them to someday have a personal relationship with Christ and then obey etc... for the right reason--because they love God and want to please him, and one way to please him is by obeying the commands in scripture.<br />I think the same idea can be applied to prayer. Children can learn to pray and begin to understand that God is our provider and the person we go to with our problems and concerns. They're not praying for the right reasons, but once they become a Christian we begin to communicate that to them and start making prayer more personable for them by talking about how God answers the prayers of believers etc...<br />Along those line...I don't think it's bad for a young child to learn to be thankful for the food, clothes, sunshine etc... that God has given them and actually thanking God for those things can be the beginning of understanding more about our God. I hope the rambling made a little bit of sense. I take great comfort in the fact that while we as parents are responsible for teaching our children, we also serve a great God. I often pray that God would work in the heart of my "little Danelle" inspite of my mistakes/uncertainties. Lets face it, sometimes we make a decision and then later wonder what we were ever thinking:). Parenting is such a joy, but also an overwhelming responsibility. That's off the subject of prayer, but I think God is pleased that we think through things like you are, even though we don't always have all the answers. Jas 1:5-God promises to give wisdom "liberally". <br />This doesn't really have anything to do with prayer, but here's a book I've really appreciated: Teach them diligently by Lou Priolo. It's about how to use the scriptures in child training.<br /><br />I'll sign off for now. Mom reminded me of your blog and I've enjoyed reading your posts!! :)dchabeggerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15382343106043061271noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7644621885230406420.post-65491697129887195142009-09-19T14:59:41.421-07:002009-09-19T14:59:41.421-07:00When I was little, we learned to pray by rote, and...When I was little, we learned to pray by rote, and learned why later. I never thought teaching a child to pray before they understood all of the religous reasons was OK. I told my kids and grandkids, we need to thank G-d, and that even if you don't think you see Him, He's always there. Kids want to pray even before understanding, because they see their family praying, and don't need to understand why until they are ready. <br /><br />I've never thought yelling at someone was a sin, though. I DO think that apologizing when it's out of anger is a good way to show we aren't perfect, and that you respect your child as much as she respects you.Pamela Hhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03965996272107981533noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7644621885230406420.post-71604175775768677812009-09-18T09:11:51.667-07:002009-09-18T09:11:51.667-07:00wow Nicole it never ceases to amaze me how deep yo...wow Nicole it never ceases to amaze me how deep your thoughts are. When you were 3 we did not have the privilege of knowing the Lord and didn't go through these deep questions and I think when Joey was that age we were such young Christians that we were just thankful for our children singing 'Jesus' songs. <br /><br />I continually marvel in the Lord and how He is leading you in raising my beautiful granddaughters and am so thankful for you and Tim.<br />I love you!<br />MOM<br />PS LOVED what Janna said about Dear God vs Dear Father- very insightfulUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17064817570022522696noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7644621885230406420.post-19239149103963739622009-09-17T23:06:52.202-07:002009-09-17T23:06:52.202-07:00I love how you are always talking with her.
I'...I love how you are always talking with her.<br /><br />I've heard of a family who would allow their child to pray before salvation but had them pray "Dear God" and once they were saved they were allowed to pray "Dear Father" to help them distinguish.<br /><br />When you potty train you talk about the potty, visit the potty and practice on the potty so that one day when they are ready they will use the potty.<br /><br />I think we talk about God, learn how to talk to God, and go to His house so that one day when she's ready she will understand more about being God's Child and choose Him as her Savior.Jannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06356948275526610098noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7644621885230406420.post-61697509259232057952009-09-17T13:37:30.422-07:002009-09-17T13:37:30.422-07:00You know, I have never even thought twice about ch...You know, I have never even thought twice about children praying. Sometimes I ask them if they would like to pray, other times they just do it (like before a meal). <br />Anyhow, I think you are on the right track. It is great to be able to go to God in prayer, and may children know that He is always there ready to listen and minister.Tashanoreply@blogger.com